Wednesday, July 10, 2013
How Do I Get a Girl Today?
It starts with being normal when you are around girls. Acting desperate will never get yourself a girl as it will always raise some doubts on your confidence level. No girl will ever want to date a guy with a low self esteem. To add on, not being yourself when you are around girls will hinder you from bringing out the best of what you are. You will agree with me, from your own experience maybe, when i say that the number of times you try to stay perfect around a girl corresponds to the number of times you have greatly messed around them. Treat girls like your friends and not special creatures and you stand a chance of turning one of them into your girlfriend.
Being a social guy and having some degree of humor will attract a number of girls to you. If i may quote this common trite that says, 'if you can make a girl laugh then you can absolutely make her do anything for you'. The truth is, you can't make a girl laugh if you are not a social guy. Every guy has humor but our humor only comes out best when we erase our fears and become social. You don't need to master some stand-up comedy stunts to make a girl laugh. You can create humor from absolutely anything that is around her. Tease her but moderately, make fun of the things around you and you will be a half way towards getting yourself a girl.
Understanding the exact kind of a woman you want will not only get you close to them, but it is also an important step in trying to get their attention. First impression works perfectly well with any girl before you start to build on your personality. No girl will ever want to date a guy that she is not attracted to, and if the chance stands, then it will take the guy more time to impress the girl with his personality. Your mode of dressing, appearance, perfume and how you conduct your self the first time you meet the girl of your dream, greatly determines your chances of getting close to her.
Get out and meet girls. You won't be meeting girls to date if you sit in the house all day glued to the screen. An idle walk will also not get you a descend girl to date, unless it's your lucky day. Attend parties, visit your friends that might be having sisters that wont miss to have friends, go to movies, church and any other social place that has girls and remember to act normal and don't show a single speck of being desperate. Treat all the girls you meet like friends before choosing one that you can ask for a date.
With all those tips at you disposal, then you stand a better chance of getting yourself a girlfriend. Remember our conditional factor, being normal on your day out with the girl you aspire to make your girlfriend. Maintain an eye contact whenever you talk to her and don't let the talk revolve around you, but try to create a conversation. Be sincere with your words and simply tell her how much you like her and the chances are, the woman you are talking to is probably your girlfriend.