Thursday, July 11, 2013
How Do You Get a Girl? - Probably The Most Asked Question I Get
The more you think of how hard or awkward it is to get a girl's attention, it will become a reality. You should first relax yourself by focusing on things that you enjoy and let yourself be yourself. Don't think of it as a mission to get a girl, but instead, think of it as a time to enjoy yourself. Naturally, girls will come towards you because when you are relax and easygoing, you give out a vibe that lets people know that you are approachable.
Get Your Posture Right
Many guys have the bad habit of poor body postures such as slouching or simply crossing their arms in front of them when they are in a room full of people. Now is the best time to pay attention to your body posture and make corrections to it. If you are crossing your arms by default, then change that because it signifies that you are not available to be approached. Slouching or hunching over makes you looked like you have low self-esteem. If you noticed that in your own posture, then pull your shoulders back and stand upright.
Be A Good Conversationalist
The best way to get to know a girl is to start talking to her. Many guys make the big mistake of talking too much about themselves and leaving the girl there to listen to all his stories about himself. People generally likes to talk about themselves and instead of focusing on yourself, try to ask questions about her. That in return will get the two of you to start having a mutual conversation that's far more enjoyable.
You don't need to dressed up like James Bond but it would be a good idea to at least dress decently and be clean. Bad body odor can make girls run away and avoid you like plague and looking sloppy and dirty is simply a turn off for most girls. Simply put, just wear decent clothes, look clean and smell good are the keys to capturing the girl's attention.
The first impression is important and so is a good attitude. Try to refrain yourself from swearing and using profanity when you are trying to attract a girl. Being a gentleman can score your some extra points with the girls. In short, be nice, courteous and easygoing. It makes them feel more comfortable to be with.
The above tips can help you a great deal if you apply it when you go out and meet girls. Most importantly, you should be yourself and focus on making yourself comfortable first before approaching the girls in a nervous state. Chances are, they will be able to feel your awkwardness and be more turn off than to want to start a conversation with you. This takes practice and the more you apply the methods above, the more you will feel comfortable and confident about yourself. Eventually, you will master it and the girls will start to approach you sooner than you expected.