Relationships often end, some in bitter accusation while others in whirl wind of doubt. You may have mentioned few things that you wouldn't wish and she retaliated. You may have had a little time to contemplate on what you have lost and realized that you need her back, the following are the tips of getting her back.
Get your life together: You should get your life back; this is because
you may have been in a relationship and your girlfriend just terminated
it. This is your time to focus on what you can change about your
personality before moving back to her again. Ladies want to realize self
improvement from you. She may have complained on some things that you
did when you were in the relationship, self improvement will make you a
better person. Go back to your ex girlfriend with the evidence that you
are a new person.
Also recover emotionally: you will not get her back unless you are
emotionally controlled and calm. Girls hate clingy, needy and desperate
men but instead prefer guys who are independent and self sufficient. You
can also get new clothes to indicate subtle change in you; your outer
self will signal your changes underneath. Looking sharp is a symbol of
Developing the right attitude: Winning her back begins with a right
attitude, girls prefer seeing mature and independent guys. Stop being
jealousy since it will get you nowhere. Jealousy is linked to fear and
anxiety. Jealousy portrays that you want to control her, they hate this.
Act like nothing happened; don't let her know that you are suffering
from the hangovers of break over. Also develop some sense of humor; a
humor and playful attitude is what ladies admire. This carries the
message that you are youthful and that you are not aggressive.
Leave her alone: Let her reflect on the relationship; if it was great,
she will definitely reflect on the good things that you had together and
she will feel the absence. Cut off any communication, this will hurt
her and let her tempers to cool down. Giving her space will be an
opportunity for her to understand how independent you are.
Apologize to her: Whether you broke the relationship of she is the one
who broke, apology is always good. It demonstrates that you can swallow
your ego and that you are caring to confess you did wrong. Send her
flowers and other gifts; this is what ladies want and love most. Also
send her letters since it expresses your feelings. Tell her in person,
in a public place that you need the relationship back.
Work to the friendship slowly, start repairing lost trust, and
demonstrate that you can be trusted back. Do nice things to her, go out
together with her. Confess to her that you really miss nice things about
the relationship and that you want it back. Give her an assurance that
you can fix the things that broke the relationship; be honest with your
feelings by opening up.